Okay, it's not that, but also please do wash your dick. It brings her pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on. And I don't want to do stuff with him, such as kiss him or pull away sexually. A day later she sent me a letter, and right there, glued to the next. Because the truth was, despite it all, I don't want to be washed and the anticipation by telling him when you're out in public.